One of the challenges of dog holidays is managing times when you can't take your dog with you. Whether it's a restaurant meal, an indoor attraction, or simply wanting an hour at a museum, knowing the rules and realities of leaving your dog alone helps you plan appropriately.
Understanding the Issue
Why It Matters
The Dilemma: Dog holidays should include your dog, but some activities exclude them. Indoor attractions, certain restaurants, and some experiences don't allow dogs.
Options:
- Only do dog-friendly activities
- Take turns (if travelling with others)
- Leave dog briefly in accommodation
- Arrange alternative care
The Reality
Many dog owners do leave their dogs for short periods in accommodation. Others never do. This guide helps you understand the considerations and make informed choices.
Accommodation Rules
Know the Policy
Before Booking: Always clarify whether you can leave your dog alone. This should be part of your booking process.
Common Policies:
"Dogs must not be left unattended": Clear rule. You cannot leave your dog at all. Plan accordingly.
"Dogs may be left for short periods": Usually 1-2 hours maximum. Must be settled. Must not bark.
"No restrictions": Owner doesn't mind, but your dog's welfare still matters.
Why Policies Exist:
- Barking disturbs neighbours
- Distressed dogs may damage property
- Welfare concerns
- Noise complaints
Asking the Right Questions
Clarify:
- Can dogs be left alone at all?
- For how long?
- Any specific requirements?
- Consequences of complaints?
Booking tips cover asking the right questions before committing.
When Leaving Might Be Okay
Suitable Conditions
May Work If:
- Dog is genuinely settled when alone
- Short duration only (1-2 hours maximum)
- Dog is comfortable in space
- Accommodation rules allow
- No separation anxiety
How to Know If Your Dog Copes
Signs of a Dog Who Settles:
- Calm when you leave at home
- Sleeps when left
- No destructive behaviour
- No barking reported
- Relaxed on your return
Signs of a Dog Who Doesn't:
- Anxiety when you leave
- Barking or howling
- Destructive behaviour
- Toileting accidents
- Extreme excitement on return
New Environment Consideration
Important: Dogs who cope at home may struggle in new environments. The unfamiliarity can increase anxiety.
First Time:
- Leave very briefly initially
- Build up if okay
- Monitor for signs of stress
- Don't assume home behaviour transfers
See our guide on dog behaviour on holiday for more on adjustment.
When Not to Leave Dogs Alone
Clear No-Go Situations
Never Leave If:
- Dog has separation anxiety
- Accommodation rules prohibit
- Dog is unsettled in space
- Weather is very hot (car or accommodation)
- You don't know how they'll react
Separation Anxiety
If Your Dog Has Separation Anxiety: Don't leave them alone on holiday. Period. See our anxious dogs guide for management strategies.
Alternatives:
- Take turns with travel companions
- Only do dog-friendly activities
- Arrange sitting/walking services
- Choose different activities
Heat Concerns
Never Leave Dogs in:
- Cars in warm weather (death risk)
- Poorly ventilated accommodation in heat
- Anywhere without climate control in summer
See our summer guide for heat management.
If You Do Leave Your Dog
Preparation
Before Leaving:
- Good walk to tire them
- Toilet break
- Fresh water available
- Comfortable temperature
- Familiar blanket/bed
- Low-anxiety departure
Duration
Guidelines:
- Maximum 1-2 hours
- Shorter if new to the space
- Check earlier if unsure
- Don't push limits
What to Leave
Helpful:
- Stuffed Kong or chew
- Comfortable bed
- Water
- Background noise (radio)
- Familiar items
Reducing Anxiety
Techniques:
- Don't make departures dramatic
- Don't make returns dramatic
- Practice short absences first
- Leave familiar scents
- Stay calm
Checking In
Options:
- Return to check
- Pet camera if you have one
- Shorter outings if uncertain
- Have backup plan
Alternatives to Leaving Dogs
Take Your Dog
Choose Dog-Friendly: Focus on dog-friendly attractions, dog-friendly cafes and restaurants, and activities where your dog is included.
Plan Around Dogs: Structure days so you don't need to leave them.
Take Turns
If Travelling With Others: One person does non-dog activity while other stays with dog. Swap next time.
Dog Sitting Services
Local Options: Some areas have dog sitting or dog walking services. Research before travel.
Finding Help:
- Local dog walkers
- Pet sitting services
- Hotel/accommodation concierge (some offer)
- Holiday area services
Day Care
Holiday Dog Day Care: Some destinations have doggy day care options. Research availability.
Accommodation Type Considerations
Cottages and Self-Catering
See our Cottages guide.
Often More Flexible:
- Private space
- Fewer neighbours to disturb
- Owner sets rules
- Usually possible for short periods
Hotels
See our Hotels guide.
Usually Stricter:
- Often cannot leave dogs
- Noise affects other guests
- Smaller spaces
- Check specific policy
Holiday Parks
See our Holiday Parks guide.
Variable:
- Check site rules
- Close neighbours
- Noise concerns
- Varies by park
Camping and Glamping
See our Camping guide and Glamping guide.
Usually Possible:
- You're generally present
- But leaving tent/unit usually okay briefly
- Dog must be quiet
- Secure if outside
Specific Scenarios
Restaurant Meals
Options:
- Choose dog-friendly restaurants - see our dining guide
- Outdoor seating with dog
- Take turns
- Brief leave if rules allow
- Picnic instead
Indoor Attractions
Options:
- Skip indoor sections
- Take turns
- Research dog-friendly alternatives
- Brief leave if appropriate
See our attractions guide for outdoor options.
Evening Out
Options:
- Dog-friendly pubs (our Pub Walks guide covers these)
- Early dinner and return
- Take turns
- Brief leave if suitable
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I leave my dog alone in a holiday cottage?
Depends on cottage rules and your dog. Check policy first. Only short periods. Only if dog genuinely settles.
How long can I leave my dog alone on holiday?
Maximum 1-2 hours, if rules allow and dog copes. Shorter in new environments.
What if my dog barks when I leave?
Don't leave them. Find alternatives. Barking dogs get complaints and distress themselves.
Can I leave my dog in a hotel room?
Usually not allowed. Check specific hotel policy. Often prohibited.
What about separation anxiety?
Don't leave dogs with separation anxiety alone on holiday. It's not fair to them and won't work.
Should I get a pet camera?
Can be helpful to check remotely. But prevention and appropriate planning is better than monitoring distress.
Plan to Include Your Dog
The best dog holiday involves your dog in everything. When that's not possible, understand your dog's needs, know accommodation rules, and use alternatives where you can. Brief absences may be manageable; extended leaving is rarely appropriate.
The goal is holidays together, not holidays despite your dog.
Luke rarely leaves Charlie, Buster, Ember, Simba, Max, and Molly alone on holiday. With six dogs, someone is always with the pack. Most activities are planned around including everyone.
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